in your life time.. i m quite sure that there are times that you really hate yourself... really regret what you have done.. (these are normally called the mines of life... u step on it.. and BOOM)
Wednesday, April 07, 2010
it's really hard to admit own's fault.. and it's even harder to hear it from someone's mouth...
it's like.. after you admit that you yourself have some problem to someone.. and the person turns around and say.. EH.. u know u got this problem...
this is one of the worst feelings to feel... i do feel stupid when someone do that to me.. didn't they hear that i just confessed that i have some problems during the past few minutes???
and sometimes... they say it as thought the fault is all yours.. ALL YOURS....
hmm i admit that i have faults.. but i m definitely not wrong for the particular incident.. but usually people just relate it together.. or they just sounded like relating both issues together.. (i do not know.. probably as usual.. i m wrong)
anyway.. what i wanted to share is.. when someone admit their fault/problem.. DO NOT REPEAT by saying.. EH. do u think that the problem lies with u?
end note... i will adapt and learn and change.. oh well.. like they say.. the only constant in life is change.. without change, life will not improve.. so i do believe change is always good.. no matter what's the changes are.. there is sure some silver lining on every dark cloud.. and always... silver lining is the most significant thing compared to whole patch of dark cloud.
Tuesday, April 06, 2010
everyone want to hear what they want to hear.. what they like to hear..
when they hear something that they dun like.. or they dun used to hear... most probably they just intercept you immediately without properly listen to what you want to deliver.. then start to defend..
then someone will get pissed and walk away...
what's the odd of getting this treatment 2 times in 1 hour..
i shall not speak.. not comment.. not advice.. just listen...
on a side note.. unable to know the expression of opposite party does means that on a 99% chance that you are steeping on a land mine... BOOOOM!!